Quotations I can't seem to let go...

So, these are some awesome ones I just can't seem to "let go" of (I mean, let them drop from the blog's main page & be gone altogether), so rather than wipe them out, here they are!

“There is some strange intimacy between grief and aliveness, some sacred exchange between what seems unbearable and what is most exquisitely alive.” (Francis Weller in The Wild Edge of Sorrow – Rituals of Renewal and the Sacred Work of Grief)

“It’s one of the secrets of the world. We all have the key to one another’s locks. But until we start to talk, we don’t know it.” – Michael Silverblatt, host of KCRW’s ‘Bookworm’ radio show

“Tripping [canoe tripping] teaches you responsibility. ...It gives you fitness and strength. But most of all it teaches you about teamwork. Teamwork is everything in life. People who don’t get that I don’t understand.” – Michael Budman being quoted in Canoe Country – The Making of Canada, by Roy MacGregor

“Don't fight forces; use them.” – Buckminster Fuller

“Our own life is the instrument with which we experiment with the truth.” – Thich Nhat Hanh

“Courage is more exhilarating than fear and in the long run easier. We do not have to become heroes overnight, just a step at a time, meeting each thing as it comes up, seeing it is not as dreadful as it appears, discovering we have the strength to stare it down.” – Eleanor Roosevelt   ** more courage quotes

“The dumbing down of American is most evident in the slow decay of substantive content in the enormously influential media, the 30 second sound bites (now down to 10 seconds or less), lowest common denominator programming, credulous presentations on pseudoscience and superstition, but especially a kind of celebration of ignorance.” – Carl Sagan, The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark

“I used to think the top environmental problems facing the world were global warming, environmental degradation and eco-system collapse, and that we scientists could fix those problems with enough science. But I was wrong. The real problem is not those three items, but greed, selfishness and apathy. And for that we need a spiritual and cultural transformation. And we scientists don’t know how to do that.” – Gus Speth (quote found on Carolyn Baker’s Web site)

“The most dangerous risk of all: The risk of spending your life not doing what you want on the bet that you can buy yourself the freedom to do it later.” – Alan Watts

“Within you right now is the power to do things you never dreamed. This power becomes available to you just as you can change your beliefs.” – Aleksander Solzhenitsyn

“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” – Plato, Greek author & philosopher in Athens (427 B.C. – 347 B.C.)

“A thousand words will not leave so deep an impression as one deed.” – Henrik Ibsen

“I do not want to talk about what you understand about this world. I want to know what you will do about it. I do not want to know what you hope. I want to know what you will work for. I do not want your sympathy for the needs of humanity. I want your muscle.” – Robert Fulghum

“Walking is truly medicine.” – Max Lugavere, author of Genius Foods & 'Breadhead' filmmaker, quoted in episode 2 of  the Dr. Mark Hyman 'Broken Brain' series. ** more walking quotes

“The best meditation is critical thinking – followed by action.” – the Dalai Lama, quoted in the Elisabet Sahtouris film Crisis As Opportunity: Living Better on a Hotter Planet”  

“Out beyond ideas of rightdoing and wrongdoing, there’s a field. I’ll meet you there.” – Rumi

"Telling the truth is like making oxygen." – Joanna Macy (in Toronto, June 19, 2009) ** more truth quotes

“One of the saddest lessons of history is this: If we’ve been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We’re no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us. It’s simply too painful to acknowledge, even to ourselves, that we’ve been taken. Once you give a charlatan power over you, you almost never get it back.” – Carl Sagan, The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark  

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“For the great enemy of truth is very often not the lie – deliberate, contrived, and dishonest – but the myth – persistent, persuasive, and unrealistic. Too often we hold fast to the clichés of our forbears. We subject all facts to a prefabricated set of interpretations. We enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought.” – John F. Kennedy

“It is difficult to get a man to understand something when his salary depends upon his not understanding it.” – Upton Sinclair

“Fear is the cheapest room in the house. I’d like to see you in better living conditions.” – Hafiz

& of course, tons more quotes in Quotation Central. Look on the right-hand side of the page for the various categories, A-W.

 

Habit

I just did a posting about "force of habit" (March 25/18) & came across some useful quotations about habit (when I went through my 137-page quotations collection document to do a search on the word 'habit'). Here they are:

“Habit is habit, and not to be flung out the window by any man, but coaxed downstairs, one step at a time.” ~ Mark Twain

“Whenever you are angry, be assured that it is not only a present evil, but that you have increased a habit.” – Epictetus (more)

“I believe that the mind can be permanently profaned by the habit of attending to trivial things, so that all our thoughts shall be tinged with triviality.” – Henry David Thoreau in his essay “Life Without Principle,” quoted in Paul Theroux’s The Last Train to Zona Verde – My Ultimate African Safari [a great read, btw!]

“It seems we all have the tendency to move away from the present moment. It’s as if this habit is built into our DNA.” – Pema Chödrön    ** more Pema

“Habit is often ‘simply the easiest way to be wrong again.’” ~ Laurence Peter in Diet for a New America

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” ~ Aristotle

“A long habit of not thinking a thing wrong, gives it a superficial appearance of being right.” – Thomas Paine (Introduction to Common Sense 1776)

“Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words.  
Keep your words positive because your words become your behaviour.  
Keep your behaviour positive because your behaviour becomes your habit.  
Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values...
And, keep your values positive because your values become your destiny.” (Gandhi, I think)
 

“Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.” – Jim Ryun (no idea who this is. Hoping I didn't just misspell the last name when I recorded it???)

++ a couple pretty cool ones with ‘habitually,’ ‘inhabit’ or ‘inhabitants’:

“By means of all created things, without exception, the divine assails us, penetrates us, and molds us. We imagined it as distant and inaccessible, whereas in fact we live steeped in its burning layers . . . This palpable world, which we are used to treating with the boredom and disrespect with which we habitually regard places with no sacred association, is a holy place.” ~ Pierre Teilhard de Chardin, French philosopher & Jesuit priest (1881-1955), *The Divine Milieu* 

“This curious world which we inhabit is more wonderful than it is convenient, more beautiful than it is useful; it is more to be admired and enjoyed than used.” – Thoreau

On global warming: “The inhabitants of planet Earth are quietly conducting a gigantic environmental experiment.  So vast and sweeping will be the consequences that, were it brought before any responsible council for approval, it would be firmly rejected.” – Dr. Wallace S. Broecker, scientist

 

 

 

Grief

Quotations about Grief

“We are remade in times of grief, broken apart and reassembled. It is hard, painful, and unbidden work.” – Francis Weller in The Wild Edge of Sorrow – Rituals of Renewal and the Sacred Work of Grief  

“There is some strange intimacy between grief and aliveness, some sacred exchange between what seems unbearable and what is most exquisitely alive.” – Francis Weller in The Wild Edge of Sorrow – Rituals of Renewal and the Sacred Work of Grief  

“Facing grief is hard work. … It takes outrageous courage to face outrageous loss. This is precisely what we are being called to do.” – Francis Weller in The Wild Edge of Sorrow

“Her grief was dignified and hidden, as is most grief, which is partly why there is always so much of it to go around.” – from The Yellow Birds, by Kevin Powers

“Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world’s grief. Do justly, now. Love mercy, now. Walk humbly, now. You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it.” – from the Talmud

“I think of the trees and how simply they let go, let fall the riches of a season, how without grief (it seems) they can let go and go deep into their roots for renewal and sleep. …Imitate the trees. Learn to lose in order to recover, and remember that nothing stays the same for long, not even pain, psychic pain. Sit it out. Let it all pass. Let it go.” – May Sarton, poet/novelist, “Journal of a Solitude”

“For in this world of ours where everything withers, everything perishes, there is a thing that decays, that crumbles into dust even more completely, leaving behind still fewer traces of itself, than beauty: namely, grief.” – Marcel Proust, quoted in The Open Road – The Global Journey of the 14th Dalai Lama, by Pico Iyer

“Life is a joyful participation in a world of sorrows.” – Buddhist thought (quoted in The Open Road – The Global Journey of the 14th Dalai Lama, by Pico Iyer)

From a 2014 post called ‘Bearing Witness’: “We can remain in denial about the ecocide we are all witness to, as the cult of optimism would have us do, or we can acknowledge and embrace the sorrow that is a natural response to loss, devastation and catastrophe. In grief we make a choice to honor the lost and their existence. We speak in a clear voice, to anyone who will listen, that their lives mattered. And we are also forced to face our own mortality in the process.

Agreeing to walk through our grief honestly can be a catalyst for creative defiance and undaunted dissent. It is perhaps the only resistance we can offer to the insistence of apathy imposed on us from the wraiths on Wall Street and Madison Avenue. The unnatural barriers they have erected to mask our humanity crumble in the rancid pile they deserve when a soul is set free to grieve. It is in grief that we find ourselves to be inseparable from each other, and from the nature from which we are all born. In this way, sorrow is the only coherent answer to extinction. It is a wail of conscience.

Bearing witness to the unprecedented crime of ecocide sweeping our planet is not accepting the carnage, it is lending another voice to testify on the behalf of the victims. And in doing so, it succeeds in making the difficult case for the worth of the human soul.” – Kenn Orphan from his 2014 post 'Bearing Witness’       

 “A broken heart is an open heart.” – Gretel Ehrlich, nature writer, Shambhala Sun (Jan. 2005)

“The heart that breaks open can contain the whole universe.” – Joanna Macy

 “Those who don’t know how to weep with their whole heart don’t know how to laugh either.” – Golda Meir (1898 – 1978), Israeli prime minister

“All great spirituality is about what we do with our pain. If we do not transform our pain, we will transmit it to those around us.” – Richard Rohr 

“[T]hose who insist they’ve got their ‘shit together’ are usually standing in it at the time.” – Stephen Levine

“Safety is the most unsafe spiritual path you can take. Safety keeps you numb and dead. People are caught by surprise when it is time to die. They have allowed themselves to live so little.” – Stephen Levine

“Who better than the lion guy to address the sensationalizing of petty sorrows, while the underlying context, which was the terminal illness of the world, remained unrevealed?” – page 286 of the novel The Fourth Hand, by John Irving

“The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.” – Kahlil Gibran

“I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand thing.” – Agatha Christie

“If you can’t say something, you can’t see it either.” – Stephen Jenkinson in Die Wise – A Manifesto for Sanity and Soul

** Francis Weller on grief

** There are quite a few postings about grief on this site, most of them collected up in the Collections posting.

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** 2 useful items about dealing with the current human situation: